This blog will be full of quick read panty selling tips eventually for you to enjoy, I hope they help you with your panty selling!
Tip: I'd highly recommend that you buy decent knickers to sell ladies & gents, mainly because you don't want them to fall apart while you wear them (unless you are prepared to fix them yourself) you also want to get the maximum price for your fantastic service.
Tip: Always buy 2 of each kind of panties, as you can guarantee a buyer will want a pair you've already sold.
Tip: To maximize your earnings, do a lot or everything yourself. Do it all at home, by yourself or with your partner or with another seller - don't go hiring other people or places because that will dip into your profit!
Tip: Panty stuffing, inserting food, sweet treats & things that are not ment to be inserted are dangerous! You could get a yeast infection off sugar, a water infection off panty stuffing or even scratch or cut yourself - so it is not recommended!
As well as selling used panties you also need to be on the ball when it concerns sexting and roleplay, below are a few role play ideas that might spice up your sexting sessions. And don't forget that it is FREE! to sign up to ED Emporium to advertise your services!
Don't forget to enjoy what you are offering & feel comfortable in what you do...
Pretend that you’re his boss and you are getting naughty with him at work.
Pretend you’re a student who’s trying to sleep with her teacher.
Pretend one of you is a police officer and you’re getting arrested.
Pretend he’s a firefighter and he needs to put your fire out.
Pretend you’ve never had sex and you are a virgin.
Pretend you’re a nurse and your partner is poorly.
Pretend you're partner is a masseuse, include a happy ending.
Pretend that you’ve had a one-night stand.
Pretend you’re his maid or child minder, have a quickie before his wife gets home.
Pretend that you’re both porn stars on a film.
Pretend that you don't like each other and have angry sex.
Pretend you’re a prostitute.
Pretend he’s your taxi driver and you fuck him for payment.
Pretend that he’s your gym instructor, and he’s teaching you how to bend over.
Pretend he is a repair man and your house needs a repair.
Pretend you've just met in a bar or hotel.
Pretend that you’re a model, and he is your photographer.
Pretend that one of you is an artist and sketch nude.
Pretend that you’re in a long distance relationship and have to have phone sex.
Pretend one of you is a stripper and give a lap dance.
Pretend you’re sleeping with someone that is totally off limits.
Pretend it’s your wedding night, and you’re first time as husband and wife.
Have some roleplay fun!
So you sell your used underwear already & you are thinking of offering more? I have a few tips for you below, they might help you in your homemade amateur porn clips. Don't forget you can advertise this service on ED.
A few things you need first to get started;-
Firstly make sure you have a good phone or camera to take your clip with (do some research before you buy)
Secondly you need to buy a decent but cheap phone or camera stand - these are a godsend! Practice using it first so you get a good feel.
Thirdly you need to look into clip editing programs or apps & have a play around with these, see which ones you like the best. Always watermark your clips, you can add your name on your stage name on for example.
Solo play -
You don’t need to have a partner to make homemade amateur porn, if you do a little research on porn sites first - you'll see categories such as "solo girl" these types of clips are very popular, you can introduce sex toys to your clips & maybe some talking. Some buyers may prefer just seeing a woman enjoying herself in a sexy way alone - they may want to see you play in there panties they've ordered from you - they may find this extremely hot.
With partner(s) -
If you have a partner who is happy & willing then you do have more of an audience, more categories can get covered such as "cream pie" these types of clips are very popular, some buyers who buy panties tend to like watching messy scenes. Some buyers may want to see their panties being filled in a personalised clip because they may be into cuckolding.
Create the fantasy -
Maybe you can create another type of fetish or fantasy clip, such as a naughty nurse, police officer & even sniffing your own used panties. Buyers may just want to see you masturbate or carry out a sexual act with a partner because you quite frankly excite them!
Be mindful of your surroundings! Yes messy bedroom floors are a big no no! That is all the buyer will look at (and other sellers) Make sure the area around you is tidy, if you have some plants or flowers put them in the shot, I've also see seller's use a white blanket that they sit on to take clips - this looks good as it's a nice clear background.
Also try to avoid any shadows!
Natural light -
Natural lighting looks best when your shooting clips, near a door, window or outside are all full of natural light. If you have to shoot indoors try taking pictures with and without the flash on your phone/camera to see what looks the best.
Have a play around and see what your best angles are "your best side" make sure you get all of the area in the clip that you are focusing on, clips that have been cut off don't look right. Clips taken in the reflection of a mirror look crap - just don't do it ladies & gents!
Lots of shots -
If you can try shooting with a couple of cameras/phones & place them at a few good areas - then that would be fantastic, the reason for this is just incase a clip doesn't work out, then at least you have one copy, its a lot of work & you don't want to have to do it all again.
Filter, crop -
Use your editing programs or apps, obviously you don't want to add too much of a filter, maybe a soft glow.... Its a good idea to take plenty of screenshots & crop them so buyers can get a good sample of what the clip is going to be like photos - it's good to get all your selling in the picture and dont have too much background or space around them - you don't need the whole room in the photo as well!
Other tips -
Don't overthink it & relax if you can, it's best to have the clips that are more natural, so its important to relax & try not to be nervous!
The best clips are the ones that come naturally to you.
Enjoy & get filming!
Buying and selling used panties & knickers is so easy on ED Emporium. You can sell used dirty panties & other types of used underwear. Sign up for FREE anonymously today!
We have lots of fetish buyers and sellers wanting to share smelly used panties with each other. These are sure to satisfy any used panty fetish. Whether you need to earn a little extra cash, like to sniff cummy knickers or you are into crossdressing then this website is for you!
It's so easy to list and browse on this website for worn knickers! All you need to do is create a free account (which only takes a few minutes) then either list your items or take a look at what dirty knickers are available.
We always suggest that both fetish buyers and sellers verify their account before you get in touch with one another, this will give everyone peace of mind - that you are who you say you are!
Once you have done the above - THEN you are ready to buy or sell dirty panties. Once you've got a sale or you have chosen your used panties, you arrange payment off site it really couldn't be easier!
If it's your first time & your not sure if it's for you - start off small.... this way you will see if buying and selling used underwear is to your liking.
Now go & enjoy the experience!
As you know it is very competitive in the panty selling industry, it's best to have fresh adverts with new photos added onto your ED profile as often as you can. You also want to stand out from the crowd and you want to look your best at all times. It can get very expensive trying to keep your look and panty drawer updated.
Over the years I've discovered some cheaper alternatives for beauty treatments and my wardrobe. I have a few ideas that may help you save your pennies (you may already be doing some of these things - but never mind, here we go)
I will work my way from head to toe - so I don't miss any tips out!
Amazon do an amazing range of wigs, long wigs are best as they are good for photos. I used to wear a red wig, but I sold it lol! Wearing a wig has its benefits, no need to style your hair - you will have nice hair wearing a wig 100% of the time. Wigs can hide your identity too! To take care of your wig it is best if you buy a stand for it, they are cheap enough to buy and a hair net to cover it when it's not in use. To keep your wig fresh and tat free fill a spray bottle 3/4 of water and 1/4 of fabric softener and spray it every couple of weeks - brush it gently.
Face (if you show it) -
I don't show my face, but I still look after it! Forget going to a beauty salon for beauty treatments do it yourself. I recommend you use a face scrub once a week and moisturise it after. You don't need to buy a face scrub, a little sugar water does the same job! Moisturisers don't have to be expensive either, Avon do some perfectly good moisturisers for a couple of quid. I also recommend you moisturise twice a day (keeps the wrinkles at bay) I also use a little machine that is like a mini vaccum and this sucks the dry skin away - these are very good and you can get them for under £20.
Again use a body scrub and moisturise as above, I personally use non scented body washes and soaps - mainly because you want your underwear to smell of you and not strong scent (unless the buyer has asked for a perfume smell) which brings me onto perfume - again you can't beat Avon perfumes! They're are cheap and smell lovely!
Nothing much you can do for hands other than moisturise them. Also pretty lace gloves look nice and big costume rings also look good and you can buy them for a very low amount from eBay. They look so nice and classy on photos!
I have found that Ann Summers underwear is really nice! But wait until they have a sale on as it can be pricy.... Ann Summers do it all so it's easier for you as a seller to order all in one go, they do knickers, thongs, sex toys, naughty candy and lots more. You are probably thinking that Ann Summers is more expensive to buy from and it's cheaper online else where - but you save money in the long run, how many times have you bought something from China and its either too small, poor quality or doesn't work? So it's a false economy.... And returns to Ann Summers are easy!
If you go to an online shop called "Everything 5 pounds" you can buy some lovely killer heels for yes only £5! Sometimes they do have a half price or less sale on so you can buy some stunning shoes from £1 to £5. They look brilliant in photos. Yes you do pay for postage but they still work out really cheap.
Why not save money and try a DIY manicure & pedicure? Again you can get some amazing low cost tools, creams, scrubs and nail polish for very low prices from your local super market or from Avon. Or again you can make your own scrubs with sugar and water - it's so easy!
Please support your local family and friends - it is good to support local people that you know. Maybe you know Avon or Ann summers reps?
Look pretty & have fun!
It's important to offer a range of used panties, thongs & dirty knickers, as well as different types of services to used panty buyers. Not only are they looking for great styles of worn thongs, they are also looking for brilliant used panty offers! Panty buyers need something that they will go crazy for and let's face it - we ALL love a bargain don't we?
So you're not quite sure what kind of offers will attract buyers? From personal experience any panty deal should include a free little present (some sellers may disagree) you are talking pennies here when you offer something for free - or it may only cost your time.
I see alot of fetish sellers advertising a free pre recorded video clip of themselves with any purchase for that month or a free photo set - these offers are ideal! They don't cost you any extra and it tempts the buyers to buy from you. It shows that you are generous ...
Other types of free little gifts you could offer is something like a printed signed photo of yourself? Or a hand written love note, sometimes you can include a little sachet of lube? These types of freebies cost pennies - but they make buyers feel more special and important.
However please never drop your prices! You are worth every penny that you charge ...
If you want to offer sale thongs & panties it's easy to mark them in a sale within ED. If you offer cheaper services/panties it's best to have a lower cost selection of panties to hand - such as knickers from a multipack, offer the standard 24 hour wear - any extras will cost buyers more. Reduce the amount of updates they'll receive with these purchases too.
At the end of the day if you offer budget ranges such as - buy one get one half price or 2 pairs of used thongs & panties for £45 for example, buyers can't expect all of the trimmings now can they? And they can't expect to have a choice in what style panties they are buying from you.
I used to use a really good pricing structure when I offered a budget range and it might be something that will work for you. I had GOLD, SILVER AND BRONZE packages. I will list these below for you, feel free to pinch this idea!
Choose from my luxury range of underwear, 5 update messages, 5 pictures and free signed photo.
Choose from my everyday range of underwear, 3 update messages and 3 pictures.
Underwear selected at random, 1 update message and 2 pictures.
So as you can see you can offer a basic budget range - but offer the buyer less.
Offering a lower cost range is totally up to yourself, but please note it could attract the wrong type of buyers (ones that haggle on price or expect things for free etc..) On the other hand it might attract more buyers to purchase from you who wouldn't of before - as they may not want to spend a lot when they place their first order with you.
Whatever the reason for your pricing and having panty offers make sure they work for you, please have in mind to be respectful to your fellow panty sellers when updating your prices. It's best you don't undercut as it will start a price war lol! But no seriously us panty sister and brothers need to stick together!
As well as not posting bodily fluids (such as pee and poop) to another countries - the below countries are illegal to sell adult goods to, please always check buyers locations. 99.9% of buyers that ask you for used panties will be from the UK anyway and I personally have only sold to buyers from the UK.
Countries not to sell to are below -
People's Republic of China
Papua New Guinea
United Arab Emirates
Due to the outbreak and pandemic of Covid-19 at ED we feel that we should all be a little more careful when it comes to buying and selling used panties. This illness is not fully understood yet and it doesn't look as though it's going away any time soon. Below are a few safety guidelines for you to read and follow - to keep you all safe!
If any of our sellers are feeling unwell and are showing any Covid - 19 symptoms - they should unpublish all adverts for a minimum of two weeks and notify buyers that they already have orders with. Don't forget you have the holiday message area within the admin - so when potential buyers click on your profile it will show them your message. We also advise that our sellers are to take extra precautions when packaging and posting fetish items as an extra safety measure.
Official advice from the NHS regarding COVID-19 is as follows -
Stay at home if you have either -
A high temperature – this means you feel hot to touch on your chest or back (you do not need to measure your temperature)
A new continuous cough – this means coughing a lot for more than an hour, or 3 or more coughing episodes in 24 hours (if you usually have a cough, it may be worse than usual)
Health experts have advised the public to take precautions such as washing your hands thoroughly with soap and water, cover your mouth and nose with a tissue while coughing or sneezing, and bin used tissues immediately. Avoiding close contact with those who are unwell is advised, as is avoiding touching your eyes, nose and mouth unless your hands are clean.
The UK government has also advised people to practice social distancing and has ordered many public places such as pubs and restaurants to close in order to combat the spread of the virus.
Sell used panties safely -
As a seller - you are responsible for the condition and packaging of your item and, as always buyers will want absolute 100% assurance that there is no risk involved with buying your used items online.
If yourself or anyone who lives with you are showing symptoms of Covid - 19 - then ED would strongly recommend that you cease selling your used items online for a minimum of 2 week to ensure that there is no risk to your buyers.
Buy used panties safely -
As cases of COVID-19 are still relatively rare, we can reassure buyers that it is still safe to buy used items online, provided that the seller has given their assurance that they are free of any symptoms of Covid - 19 and/or flu.
Also please note that it is only the seller that is handling your goods - no third party involvement with regards to the packaging of your fetish items, so buyers can be rest assured that all measures by sellers are being taken to eliminate as much risk as possible.
You can sell whatever you like (within reason) I have another blog with a whole list of fetish items you can sell.
These things I have listed here are not so fun to sell in my experience, you may want to read this first before you offer them ...
Cummy lollipops -
Or any food for that matter is a faff and are NOT to be inserted (you could get a nasty yeast infection) best way to do these is to get your "juices" onto a sandwich bag or a bit of cling film and wrap it around the pop, any photos taken should be of the pop beside yourself - never ever insert it even just for show!
Tights without panties -
Yack! And can you imagine I used to do this and some sellers still do, some sellers I've seen wear them for up to 7 days.... They feel awful, they catch on your pubic hair and pull, make you itch and are hot (but not in the right way!) Any woman that says she's enjoying wearing them is laying. Not to mention that they click and ladder! Wear panties with them folks...
Scat, poo, skid marks, a wipe - whatever you'd like to call it! I've sold knickers once with this filling and its not good... you have to watch what you eat the day before, no veg or spices! You have to poo within a time frame and what if you don't need a poo? Then you have to work out how to get the poo onto your panties as you want the ratio of smells to be right. Some buyers like scat clips (not for me) Also you can't post poo abroad ... If you want to sell it no problem - but it should be priced correctly....
Panty stuffing -
No, no, no! I've done this once and never again... You need loads of lube on them - so what's the point? It weakens the natural smell you've worked so hard to get on the panties. Also beware of the elastic you might catch yourself and if you do - it will hurt I'm sure! Ouch! Also you might get a water infection - think about it, you have a little play or sleep with your partner and then stuff your panties... everything is getting push back up!
My goodness what a nightmare this camming malarkey is! Technical issues this and technical issues that - getting set up, then the internet goes off, no sound, no picture or the app stops working, you have to offer a discount for next time due to these issues that are never your fault! I don't recommend it if you have people in your house either... A bit noisy if you catch my drift! Plus you always go over time...
Phone sex -
Feels very uncomfortable to me, embarrassing infact personally speaking! You have to be a good actress and think of sexy things to say on the spot - making sure you include the stuff the buyer said in the long briefing before hand. Not to mention the props you need for squelchy sound effects (if you catch my drift) then angling the phone with one hand while you make these said squelchy noises with the other hand ... No thanks lol!
Custom clips -
So faffy these! You need a degree in film making, lighting and editing! It also leaves you totally wide open (pardon the pun lol!) to really bizzare requests. Do you have any idea how long it takes to create a custom clip? And this is providing you get it right in the first take! It can take an hour or more to do a 5 minute clip - I'm not joking... You have to organise your outfit, do your hair, make up, tidy the room, organise any props, set the camera into position, take tests shots and go! If you do these again charge decent prices ....
However you may enjoy these, remember to just have fun!
Right, so you've set up your profile and now you're a little stuck on how to write decent adverts? Never fear we at ED are here! Lol well we will try our best for you anyway. Below are some advert templates you can steal, change a few bits and make them yours on your ED profile!
You can have 2 kinds of adverts and I recommend you list both styles, the first type you can list general adverts for what your offering below are 2 examples you can copy and use as your own -
Advert for used underwear -
I'm pleased I caught your attention! I sell my wonderful panties, thongs, stockings and socks. I will think of you all day at work while I wear these just for you! They will rub against me in all the right places... these wonderful goodies will be worn for a full 24 hours and some played in before posting. You'll receive 4 naughty updates (including pics) throughout the day.. how exciting!?!
Love ............. X
Advert for online fun -
I'm pleased I caught your attention! Would you like to have some online fun with me? A little naughty sexting? Or maybe a few sissy tasks? I offer dick ratings and other humilliation sessions too. I want to make you explode! Cum join me on Kik for a whole 30 minutes (if you last that long!) And we can get off together... a couple naughty pics will be sent during these experiences for you to enjoy and get off over.. how exciting!?!
Love ............. X
Then I recommend you list a few individual adverts to promote a certain pair of panties or online fun you want to try and sell or that you enjoy the most, below are 2 examples you can copy and use as your own -
Advert for used panties:-
I'm pleased I caught your attention! Here are my wonderful pink passion panties, I will think of you all day at work while I wear these just for you! They will rub against me in all the right places... these will be worn for a full 24 hours and played in before posting. You'll receive 4 naughty updates (including pics) throughout the day.. how exciting!?!
Love ............. X
Advert for sexting -
I'm pleased I caught your attention! Would you like to have some online fun with me? A little naughty sexting? I want to make you explode! Cum join me on Kik for a whole 30 minutes (if you last that long!) And we can get off together... a couple naughty pics will be sent during this session for you to enjoy and get off over.. how exciting!?!
Love ............. X
As you can see these adverts are similar but on the second 2 examples your show casing one particular thing. I recommend you list at least 10 adverts to get buyers attention. And I recommend you list at least one new advert per week.
Obviously ED is free to create an account for panty sellers (and buyers) BUT... Yes you do need to advertise your services! Don't expect buyers just to come to you.
You already know that social media is free - the likes of Twitter and Instagram (just make sure you don't break any rules and get kicked off!) Some fetish sites such as this one will tweet your services for free on Twitter (with your permission, see below for more information about that)
You also have Reddit if you can figure out how to work it [I personally find it too complicated] [I'd rather] [advertise used panties] [elsewhere]
There are a few free websites you can advertise your virtual services on (well for a 20% commission) Only Fans and Admire Me. It's free to set up an account but when you've earned your money and ready to cash out - these platforms take 20% of your earnings! But they are a great place to try selling your underwear on.
It is also very important that they follow The Data Protection Act 2018 (the UK's GDPR) - did you know that these websites MUST always ask your permission before they share any of your data from their website? They are not allowed to simply tweet your adverts or advertise your services without your documented permission.
The most important thing is that you stay safe when you are selling your knickers online.
Below are lots of keywords for your used knickers ads. They may help get your adverts more noticed - be sure to add some of these within your ED adverts and on your Twitter tweets (without the hashtags of course!) If you add some of these on Twitter it may help you get found quicker!
Sell used panties. Buy used panties. Used women’s panties. Used panties for sale. Sell used panties online. Worn panties. Panty fetish. Buy dirty panties. Juicy panties. Damp panties.
Used panty fetish. Sell used knickers. Smelling used panties. Panty sniffer. Panty sniffing. Cummy panties. Pee panties. Pee pants. Skid marked pants. Used knickers for sale. Buy worn knickers. Sell worn knickers. Buy dirty knickers. Sell worn panties.
Worn panties for sale. Buy worn panties. Selling used underwear. Buy used underwear. Used underwear for sale. Dirty panties for sale. Used underwear. Sell wet panties. Sell dirty panties.
Buy wet panties. Buy used knickers. Sell dirty knickers. Dirty knickers for sale. Worn knickers for sale. Men in panties. Sissy panties. Cross dressing. Cross dresser.
I hope these keywords help you!
I have had a lot of fetish sellers ask me about Twitter recently, so I thought I'd write a blog about it.
Twitter is an ideal platform to advertise your used panty services for free!
So you've signed up to Twitter and you'd like to know how to go about advertising your services? I am no expert - but I will give you a few tips.
Twitter have lots of rules and they have an automatic system to check algorithms. If you repeatedly unknowingly break Twitter rules they think your account is spam and they will limit your account.
Unlike other platforms if you break the rules Twitter dont tell you (unless you have any nude photos set as a profile or cover photo) If you break any other rule they limit your account, the limits last from a few days to several and worst case scenario is a Twitter ban!
See this link to check if your Twitter account is limited (sometimes this link is unreliable) - https://shadowban.eu/
Here is how not to break Twitter rules!
Profile/cover photos -
As mentioned above no nude photos are to be used as a profile or cover pic, that's a big Twitter no no! You'll get reported and have your account limited for a while.
If you go crazy and follow or unfollow lots of people all at once twitter can limit the use of your account for a few days. Limitations consist of one tweet, one follow and one retweet per day for several days. You can follow and unfollow up to 50 people per day - but I would recommend you do that over the course of the day or not target that many people.
Also Twitter favours you if you have more "followers" rather than "following"
You are only allowed to really use 2 hashtags when you tweet, these hashtags shouldn't be repeated on your account over and over again. So I would advice NOT to use hashtags at all - that's right, what twitter is all about dont do it! You will still come up in the searches if you just simply type the words. Bizzare I know...
NO - #usedpanties YES - usedpanties OR used panties.
This is my latest discovery of what not to do.... It's fine to tag others in your tweets but again Twitter does not like you doing the same tags on every tweet, every day. Again Twitter will think your account is spam! My advice is to tag others in your posts a couple of times a week OR just write the words "Erotic Dreams" Also you must tag correctly....
NO - #EroticDreamsUK YES - @EroticDreamsUK.
Website links -
You can include website links on your tweets BUT if you repeat the same link over and over Twitter does not like this, they also do not like "adult links" - so it's best you use an app to list all of your links like "AllMyLinks" or have your links in your bio or mention them in a pinned tweet instead.
According to Twitter you can tweet up to 20 times a day? However I wouldn't recommend that, your audience will get sick of seeing lots of tweets from you - as lovely as you are! 1 tweet per day is plenty. Plus you want to avoid your account being reported by another user.
If your likes have dropped on your tweets - have a break for around 4 days. This may mean that your account is limited. Also there's no need to tweet every single day, have a rest now and again!
You can retweet other people's tweets (as far as I know) up to 40 times per day (I could be wrong) If you retweet you'll gain followers, it also shows that you are friendly towards other twitter users and you may make friends along the way - it costs nothing to be nice.... But I recommend that you only retweet a couple of your old tweets now and again - because Twitter does not like too many of your tweets being retweeted - yet again they could limit your account!
Quality tweets -
Be yourself! I recommend that you tweet once a day, get your audience involved by asking them a question or doing a Twitter pole, maybe tweet about what your doing that day? No swearing either mind! Tag others who may RT you (RT is short for retweet)
Example - "What colour used panties do you prefer?" Pink, White, Blue or Black? Personally I like pink! Links to my offerings are in my bio @EroticDreamsUK @EDRetweetsUK Please RT! X
Pics & clips - attach a pic or clip of yourself to your tweet, followers LOVE it when you tweet the same style pics each day - for example the same type of picture but do a slightly different pose in each one, it's always best to tweet 2 or 4 pics at one time with your daily tweet.
Remember NO HASHTAGS OR LINKS IN YOUR TWEETS! And remember to include keywords like "used panties, used thongs, worn panties, used holdups, selling nudes, sexting etc etc ....
"Be kind" to your fellow panty sellers and panty buyers. When you comment make sure you include a key word or two! Also you can comment with a picture of yourself. Twitter apparently doesn't like it if you comment on people's tweets who you are not following?
Example of a comment - "I really love those used panties xxx"
Twitter doesn't like it when you use third party apps to carry out your "following" and "unfollowing" automatically for you etc... I think it's to do with the threat of spam or bots logging into your account - so I don't recommend you use them.
So basically all of the things you thought you should do on Twitter you shouldn't do on Twitter? It's crazy!
It sounds complicated but you'll get the hang of it! Thing is if your account looks more like a personal account rather than a selling one - it will work out better for you, don't forget to mark it as it may contain sensitive material (within the privacy and safety settings) Sometimes Twitter thinks people are robots who are spamming there platform! If they think this is what you are doing they will limit your account AND remember that they don't like adult content!
This is the hardest thing about panty selling I think, some buyers argue with you if you ask them to verify their age and prove that they are over 18 years old.
Some potential buyers can be quite rude about it as well. Some buyers also don't accept that you are a verified seller on a selling site - they often want more "proof" that your "real" most of these guys that press for more "proof" tend to be time wasters who just want free pictures.
Some buyers also get embarrassed or shy if you ask them to verify, which is totally understandable - but you need to double check, don't assume they are over 18 just because they got in touch through an 18+ site!
Did you know in my experience that by checking buyers ages in a certain way actually weeds out time wasters - No?
I have a few options below on how you can to do this -
1. Direct them to create a buyer account on ED and ask them to verify their age through this website. Then ask them to send you a message through this platform once they have done this (you can offer them a discount or a thank you nude for doing it this way. Plus they will see all of your offerings on the website)
I recommend you only get in touch with verified buyers only through this platform, to keep you safe! But I would still quickly ask them how old they are just for your own peace of mind....
2. You can age verify via email or through a communication app. On your FIRST contact with them send them a live picture of yourself holding a bit of paper or use a chalk board (no need to show your face) with the below message on -
I am Karin
30 years old
Please verify your age in the same way. Thank you!
3. Ask them to send you a picture of their passport or driving license, although buyers never go for this option as it shows their identity - however it is another option for them to prove that they are over 18!
4. Some sellers verify by asking for a "contribution" payment of £1+ to be paid, this is because you must be over 18 the have Bank/PayPal account. I personally don't like this method. I think I will put buyers off straight away, having to pay for nothing in return? But at least this method covers you for your time.
I personally would go with option 1 as it's easier for the buyer, remind them if they don't verify that you don't want to be potentially talking to a minor & you can't do business with them. If they still try to get you to chat with them on a communication app - DON'T! remind them that they need to verify their account on ED first before you'll play.
Yes it is long winded HOWEVER this 100% works trust me. If they verify then you have a genuine buyer! If they don't or only give you half of the information - then you have a TIME WASTER!
If they continue to chat and are not forthcoming with age verification then you either ignore them or send a message like the below -
Thanks for getting in touch today, however I do need to check you are 18+ Unfortunately I can't help you without this information. Good luck with your fetish buying! X
AND THEN REPORT, BLOCK & MOVE ON!
Have fun & stay safe!
Know your worth guys, the amount of experienced panty sellers I've seen lately selling used panties for £7 to £10 is ridiculous - not to mention £7 for used bras & £15 for high end panty brands like Victoria Secret!
Sorry! But it's all wrong.... this is not jealousy talking this is experience talking! Be a good sport and stop undercutting other panty sellers please - don't be selfish here we are all in it together as a community. It's not a nice thing to do!
Let me break the cost down here for you - a decent pair of panties or thongs cost around £3 to £4 to buy in, then you will send around 3 photos wearing them, custom photos are worth £3 each - not to mention the time it takes to age verify, sort out payment and the message updates you need to send - which is worth about £10 alone. Don't forget as well you have to cover P&P which is about £2.50 (UK post) TOTAL WORTH = £25.50.
Branded panties should be at least £35+
This above pricing does not include the time it takes to list them and promote your services!
I always say NEVER sell your used knickers for less than £25, UNLESS it is an add on and the buyer has already ordered a lot with his current order OR they are an "oops" pair where you've had an accident in them....
Why you shouldn't under sell yourself -
It gives the wrong impression.
Drives all prices down between sellers unnecessarily.
It attracts the wrong type of buyer, they will expect cheap.
You wont make anything on them.
Buyers - most £10 panties are cheap for a reason .... Because they won't be very good and you'll be wasting your money, your best off saving up a little more to buy a decent pair.
Sorry to say but if you are a buyer reading this and pay £10 for used panties - shame on you! Sellers are worth more than £10 and you know this! Yes it's fun but we need to make a living.
If a buyer expects low cost items from me or haggles with the price - I won't entertain them, it's as simple as!
Cock ratings are so much fun! They are quick, easy & buyers love them!
So you are fetish seller & a buyer has approached you to give a cock rating and you've never given one before? Fear not below is how to give a dick rating that will pip anyone elses!
Firstly you need to create an advert on ED that will catch a fetish buyers eye... It's best to mention that you will be 100% honest during the rating, pop in the advert how many pictures you need to see of them to give a rating (you need to see all of the dick, Inc balls and bellend)
Mention in the ad how long the rating will last roughly & finally if they will receive any pics or clips along side the rating. I always give a few free pics with the rating as it helps it sell & it encourages them to keep their pecker up and standing to attention (if you catch my drift?)
You generally get to see in the messages leading up to a rating if they'd like a bit of penis humiliation thrown in! But if your not sure you can ask them how they feel about there dick and don't be too harsh when you rate them - unless they've asked you to be critical!
So below are the points I usually cover in a cock rating -
You pop your answer next to each point, mention if it's big, small, amazing or pathetic etc ... Have some fun with it! (In no particular order) Also make them wait a little for the rating! Build it up!
Symatry (if it's bent etc)
Best sex position recommendation.
Skin appearance (texture and veins)
Pathetic dick, I've seen bigger cocktail sausages! OR Wow that's what I call a trouser snake!
Rating out of 10 =
I hope this helps!
So you may have wondered why fetish buyers love used panties? I have spoken to several buyers and it's more than men in panties...
A lot of buyers don't actually wear the panties that they buy, most buyers love to feel closer to women. They enjoy the whole experience - interaction, attention and sexy photos with different panty sellers. It's an exciting experience for them, from ordering to them landing on the door mat.
However you do get buyers who indeed love to wear women's underwear, they absolutely love the whole sissy training experience.
Some buyers like well worn panties and other buyers aren't that bothered about smelly panties as it's more of a collection for them and buying models panties or underwear sets from a photo shoot. Standard wear from a panty seller is usually 24 hour wear and played in (and around 3 photos included)
Whatever the reason I personally love it! I love the fact that buyers want to buy my under garments and it's a fantastic confidence boost!
I also found that the buyers I've spoken to have either just recently started to buy used knickers or they've been buying for a long time. Most buyers buy from a safe platform and from a verified seller (like this one) some buyers like to buy directly from Twitter or even from Kik selling groups.
Every panty buyer that I've spoken too likes to buy multiple pairs of used knickers, they also like to buy extras such as videos clips and photos of sellers in used panties, signed magazines, stockings, sweet treats and more!
A lot of buyers don't like pushy sellers, and don't like it when sellers message buyers pushing them to buy. Most panty buyers in general are very shy and prefer to make the first move - so its best to be yourself and not be too pushy girls and guys!
Most of the buyers I've spoken to - have no preference of types of seller, they like all ages, ethnicities and sizes etc.... If the seller looks sexy, is polite and has a good selection of panties - then that is fantastic!
The panty selling business is growing by the day and some sellers think that the market is now saturated and very competitive - however after talking to buyers they welcome the extra sellers and choice. Infact buyers have reported to me that it's difficult to make bookings with some sellers!
Most panty buyers that I have spoken to prefer sexy thongs rather than full backs and prefer brands. ED did a Twitter pole about panty brands and the 3 most popular brands were - Victoria Secret, Ann Summers and Agent Provocateur, however Lounge Wear is a popular brand too. A lot of buyers prefer satin/silk blends - however some buyers prefer cotton (as apparently cotton tends to lock in scent better! Tip for you fellas, give cotton a try if you haven't already!)
I hope you enjoyed reading this!
Oh yes! I've dealt with a fair amount of these over the years... Some "buyers" just get off on your free chat, some "buyers" love it when you call them names as well (sad and pathetic I know!) So don't be nasty because they get off on it!
Well don't give them the satisfaction of wasting your time, just block them - even if you get a funny vibe off them (trust your gut instinct) Your time = £££
So you've had a potential buyer get in touch to discuss your services? And they are asking you countless questions on what you have and listing all they want, being cheeky and maybe trying to get some freebies etc...
You're not alone! The below points should help reduce the amount of time wasters (in my experience):-
Firstly age verify before you discuss anything in any detail... You should anyway before you discuss anything in detail. Send your potential buyer a list of what you offer & don't offer (a "menu") then tell them if they'd like to go ahead with anything or discuss further - they need to age verify first. I guarantee you this cuts out most time wasting! 1. Lucky for you can ask them to join this website to do so 2. They can send you a small payment of £2 in exchange for a nude (you have to be 18+ to have a bank account) 3. You can send them a picture of yourself holding there name and your age on a bit of paper (no need for full face) & tell them that they need to do the same in return to age verify. Personally I'd go for option 1. If they don't age verify or they don't age verify properly - it means they just want free chat sadly... If they don't age verify I would block them straight away - without wasting anymore of your time.
Be clear and polite from the start and again make sure you let them know from the word go what you offer and don't offer (inc any limitations) Direct potential buyers to this site and your profile, they can join and look at your listings in a safe online environment (having detailed adverts and a detailed profile helps) Some potential buyers do try and get chat for free - this is the biggest time wasting trick of all! So try to keep the conversation short, to the point but friendly. For example if they ask you to send them a photo of what panties you are wearing now - say you aren't wearing any, if they ask you what gets you going - say in a flirty tune if you buy from me you'll find out. Try and keep the conversation no more that 5 to 10 minutes and if they keep talking about there fantasies without buying - explain you also offer sexting sessions and they need to pay to play & leave the conversation at that.
Always get payment upfront before you send any pics/clips or posted goods, even if it's a long term customer that you trust (make sure you've checked you've received the payment in your account first as well) If the buyer has to wait for you to wear always take a deposit to book them in, if you don't they will go elsewhere or enjoy free content without purchasing! You can't go into a shop and order something for free - so why should this be any different?
Don't be too cheap! Sell your goods and services at a proper price. Don't do business with buyers that haggle, it is rude! You don't go into a shop and haggle on the cost of a loaf of bread do you? It is a specialised service after all. If you sell cheap you'll attract the wrong type of cheap buyer - so just don't ladies and gents! What I tend to do if someone is being annoying is I add a "prick fee" of an extra £30 on top of the order lol and if they go ahead then at least you're getting paid extra for the attitude!
Make sure buyers have read what you offer & don't offer properly and if they ask countless questions direct them to your profile so they can read all about you on there and see your listings - then ask them to only get in touch once they've seen something they would like to buy.
Noticing the signs of time wasting comes with experience! I will list below some of the most common types of time wasting below -
Do you sell panties? (Like duh yes)
I can't see it on your profile.
Send me a sample.
Let's swap pics.
What are you wearing?
Send a pic of what your wearing.
Send me nudes.
Prove your real!
Prove your not a man.
You're a man!
Send me a pic of dirty panties.
Show me your panty gusset & I'll buy.
How dirty will you get the panties?
Sending you unwanted dick pics.
Be my friend.
Let's be friends.
What do the tasks include?
Mistress.... or Hey....
Tell me how to serve you mistress.
I'm having problems with my bank.
I've paid (but they haven't)
What's your best price?
Do it for cheaper.
What can you give me for free?
That's very expensive.
Post them first then I'll pay.
Ghosting at payment.
Being abusive towards you.
The worst type of time waster I think is ghosting at payment! And yes I think this is a form of time wasting. You've spent all that time chatting and taking their order - it's so rude! That totally does my tits in.... If this happens, message them the next day (exactly 24 hours later) and tell them no payment has been received so therefore you can not help - ask them to delete your payment details & wish them luck.
All you need to do with these above types of "buyers" is BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK ! No need to engage in conversation, no need to tell them you're blocking them - just block and move on.
Luv, Mistress K xxx
Over the years I've written and published soooo many different adverts, offering different things to see what works. When I first started out I offered everything! I'm pleased I did as it was a great learning curve to see what I like and don't like. Yes we are here to make money, but we need to enjoy what we do!
With ads try not to overwhelm yourself, so if it helps, write an advert a day or save it and publish it later - which is simple to do on ED. Below are some helpful tips that I've found have worked over the years, let's keep this simple for you!
Create an ad for all you offer.
Create an advert a day or week.
Include how many pics they'll get.
Include how many messages they'll get.
Include how it's worn.
Include any extras.
Mention P&P (buyers like free btw)
Include some nice decent pics.
Add a WOW advert pic.
Add something free.
Select a catagory eg "used panties"
Mention how excited you are.
Mention how brilliant it will be.
No need to show your face.
No need to show your rude bits.
It does all sounds long winded, but it works trust me!
So you've sold one of your services and your not sure what payment or tip options are safe to use? Or maybe it's a special occasion such as your Birthday or Christmas and you are asking for a treat?
Don't worry I've listed a few payment options below, but firstly always remember to take full payment before wear!
Sadly all payment options are not geared towards fetish sellers unfortunately.... the terms and conditions of these payment options don't allow payments for sex work, unless you are on platform that takes the payment for you - but these sites take a commission & I should imagine sites that deal with bit coins take a fair chunk of your hard earned cash! So if you are happy to work for peanuts then that's the best solution for you.
It's tricky sometimes if you accept payment because you have to give out your real name.
Bank Transfer -
I wouldn't recommend it sadly unless it's a regular buyer because I fell victim to fraud, as someone decided to use my bank details for a direct debit, I got my money back but I'm sure it was an old "buyer" that used my details! You know the type - the ones that don't actually buy and ghost at payment. If you do accept bank transfers I'd recommend you don't give out your full name - for example "Ms K Jones"
Payment Apps -
You can use a payment app, again I would be careful because some buyers may try and report you and claim their money back, sometimes these apps can cancel your account without giving you the money you've already earned. The most popular payment apps are Google Pay & Cashapp.
This is the quickest and easiest way to receive payment - but it is a tricky one because buyers can see your real name and again can try and get their money back - so your left with nothing and your PayPal account frozen. If you do use this option only accept payment through "family & friends" that way it will be harder for them to make a claim - if they pay incorrectly and pay you as you would a purchase, I'd refund them straight away and ask them to re pay through family & friends.
The only way I'd accept Bank Transfer, Pay Pal and payments from Payment Apps - is from a buyer I trust and has been a regular for a very long time ("family and friends" Pay Pal)
Amazon Wishlist -
I do not recommend Amazon wishlists! NO NO NO!!! I have seen sellers set up a wishlist for buyers to purchase things from in exchange for fun/goods or even just for a gift & I have known buyers to cancel orders and it's too late they've had fun for free .... also I know that buyers can track your parcel online and see where you live on a map! So don't please - unless you fancy a stalker on your hands!
Tipping Scheme "Buy me a coffee" -
You hook up your preferred payment method (Pay Pal or a personal stripe account) Your buyer can click on the link and buy you a coffee. Within this platform you can add "Extras" you can basically select "start from scratch" and put any amount in for a buyer to make a one off bigger purchase. I also like the fact that buyers can set up a monthly subscription to you as well. You do get charged a small fee to use this service, as far as I know buyers do see your real name when making a payment using this platform sadly - but only if they look on their PayPal statement. Remember to always mark the account as NSFW and put on a virtual services - such as a cheeky photo or a picture set. Within ED Emporium you can add the link to your buy me a coffee account to accept treats.
Only Fans/Admire Me/Bit Coins -
These are a great option if your happy to get way less money for your services, buyers can send you a tip in exchange for virtual fun only - such as sexting, you are not supposed to use these methods for physical goods, this is why on platforms they have images buyers unlock with coins (I'd check the terms and conditions of these platforms too) as I say the downside is that these platforms take 20%+ commission from you - but on some of these platforms it is free to have the account in the first place, you just need to up your prices a little to cover the fees!
Gift Cards -
This is your best option! YES YES YES! Accepting gifts rather than payments, gifts are non refundable - online eVouchers are the safest (apply the balance to your account before you send the buyer anything) Amazon and High street online vouchers gift cards are the most popular, you can now get online super market vouchers within the list of choices on the High street voucher list - so you can get your food shopping with them, most super markets sell clothes and other goods - so it's a win win.
All "payments" should be called "tips" "treat" or "gifts" as really no refunds to buyers should be made, this is because its bespoke custom service. Each service is unique to each buyer and you need to cover your time. So I'd recommend before you accept a payment that you inform buyers that they are gifts in exchange for fun & no refunds can be given.
However if a buyer cancels their used knickers before you post them - I'd suggest giving them the equivalent value back to in pictures, clips or sexting etc...
However you must ALWAYS give the buyers a refund if you back out of an order yourself or you don't send the goods for any reason. I've seen sellers take money from buyers, not deliver the goods and then block them on Twitter... This is a big NO NO! It's a nasty thing to do - just don't do it!
Luv, Mistress K xxx
Men love to buy worn panties and they also LOVE other naughty virtual things such as sissy tasks!
Ok you've been asked to give someone some sissy tasks and you don't know how as you've never done it before! Don't worry I have it covered! Firstly most guys who like tasks love to "drag" it out as much as possible (pardon the pun!) So make sure you ask them what sissy items they have before hand (example panties) and write your tasks around what they have already.
When you list your adverts on this website make sure you - set clear boundaries for how many tasks and pictures they'll receive (I always send a few nudes as it helps sell your tasks) Also set a time limit! Tell them they have 1 hour to complete the task or tasks for example be strict or they will message you about it ALL day - even sometimes message you into the next day!
I have 3 areas that I base my tasks on 1. Dressing up like a woman 2. Cum control and 3. Humiliation. I try to take a bit out of each area to create my tasks - these are the foundation of a good sissy task. I also now and again create tasks pre ready for any sissy's that require tasks, it saves time & helps build up your task collection.
Below is a simple example of some sissy tasks - but you could just tell them to go outside with there panties on and nothing else lol! Again please feel free to use it and change it to your style.
Example Sissy Tasks -
Task 1 - Put your panties on underneath your work clothes and make sure they stick out at the top of your trousers. At every opportunity bend down or tuck your top in for the world to see. I want you to flash your pants at least 10 times within the next hour.
Task 2 - Go to a public toilet mirror and pop some lip gloss on. Wait until you have at least 2 other people near you at the sinks, don't forget to have your panties flashing - they need to be on show the whole time you carry out this task. You have to do this within the next hour also.
Don't forget I need to see photo evidence and failure to carry out these tasks may result in a not so happy ending ....
So as you can see tasks can be quite easy - but are lengthly - so you need to charge proper prices. Another tip is to send all tasks altogether if there's more than one, and don't forget to give them a timescale of when you'll be doing a final check up with them! You can always score them out of 10 too!
Now go & have fun!
As well as having used knickers for sale - you may have other delights you wish to sell? I find it helpful to write a "fetish menu" or a "menu" this is basically a fetish selling price list.
Although you will already have your prices listed within your adverts on ED, having a "menu" is a great idea! Something you can just zap over in a message to your buyers (this cuts out lots of chit chat)
Below is an example of what one looks like (some sellers pop emojis next to the different services) feel free to copy this example and use it as your own:-
Sexting = £3 a min (minimum 10 mins)
Pictures Custom = £3 each.
Clips Custom = £5 a min.
Used Panties = £25 a pair.
Used Socks = £25 a pair.
Used Tights = £25 a pair.
Extras = £10 each (extra day wear and cummy panties)
All wearable items come with 3 update messages and pictures of me in your chosen goods.
Panty buyers love to buy wet panties! Some are experts in sniffing out (pardon the pun) the best panty sellers! Most fetish buyers will ONLY buy from verified sellers = FACT!
Any experienced seller will tell you to sell used panties online its best to verify who you are. Being verified is basically a fetish seller fake check.
It gives fetish buyers security to know that you are who you say you are and that your not a potential scammer.
On the other hand it stops any potential buyer from asking you to "prove your real" or "prove your not a man" you can tell buyers that your a verified seller on this website.
You can send the potential buyer a link to your profile from ED for them to see for themselves & explain to them its like a fake checker.
If buyers still want proof that you're "real" then I personally wouldn't engage in conversation further and I wouldn't advise selling to them - those are not the type of buyer you should be selling to (it's just a way for some buyers to get free pictures of you when they ask this)
So you want to sell your used panties & knickers? It is harder than you may think to sell worn panties, creating your profile, listing ads, advertising yourself. It may take a a few weeks to make your first sale - this is normal, just stick with it... Here's a quick basic start up guide to help you!
Think of a fake or a stage name. I use my real first name BUT I don't show my face. You can use any name you want. You can choose a fetish selling name to match what your best at maybe? For example if you are going to focus on foot fetish then a name like "Foot Fairy"
Think about what you want to offer, you might just want to sell dirty knickers & maybe sexting sessions? Have a think of what prices you will sell your fetish services for. I sell worn knickers & used thongs mainly and a pair of mine costs around £25 to £45.
Have a look at your current used underwear drawer as you can sell almost anything! You may already have some used bras, used baby dolls, used sex toys or used socks. It's best to see if you like being a panty seller first before you start buying any new underwear (and you haven't made any money yet) but when you buy new underwear buyers love Victoria Secret & Ann Summers!
Pop on your used underwear & take some sexy photos of yourself in your thongs. I recommend using a selfie stick (you get better angles of your booty if you use a selfie stick)
Set up a separate email address just for selling your cummy panties and you can use this email address to give to fetish buyers and you can use it to sign up to panty selling platforms.
Sign up to Twitter it's free and you can get sales from it!
Get a communication app for your phone such as Kik for example, you can pop your Kik username in your adverts for buyers to get in touch with you to buy (make sure you test the app out first to see if you like it)
Sign up to lots of free panty selling platforms (like this one) when you get your first sale you can think about upgrading to a premium account so you can list unlimited adverts.
Concentrate on your profile to start off with, you need to get it right and it has to stand out from the crowd, you can update it with more information as you go (to make it even better)
If you are short on time if it's easier take one photo and complete one advert a day or week - that way you can gradually build your profile and adverts up & see if you like it along the way.
Selling nudes online is great fun with a quick turnaround! Whether you are wanting to sell custom pics or pre taken pics it is great fun & with no over heads!
I have some really great tips below for sellers to make buyers sexy photos really stand out and buyers will be so happy with them I'm sure!
There are three things you need first before you start snapping .....
Firstly you need to buy a decent but cheap selfie stick - these are a god send! Practice using it first so you get a good feel.
Secondly make sure you have a good phone or camera to take your pictures with (do some research before you buy)
Thirdly you need to put plenty of photo filter apps on your phone & have a play around with these, see which ones you like the best. Always water mark your pictures, you can add your name on your photos with an app called Phonto.
Natural light -
Natural lighting looks best when your taking photos, near a door, window or outside are all full of natural light. If you have to shoot indoors try taking pictures with and without the flash on your phone/camera to see what looks the best.
Be mindful of your surroundings! Yes messy bedroom floors are a big no no! That is all the buyer will look at (and other sellers) Make sure the area around you is tidy, if you have some plants or flowers put them in the shot, I've also see seller's use a white blanket that they sit on to take photos - this looks good as it's a nice clear background.
Also try to avoid any shadows!
Have a play around and see what your best angles are "your best side" make sure you get all of the area in the photo that you are focusing on, pictures that have been cut off don't look right. Photos taken in the reflection of a mirror look crap - just don't do it ladies & gents!
(If you show your face) A high angle pointing down looks good - keep you chin down and the camera up. You probably shouldn't stare directly into the camera lense, turn to the side a little bit - it looks more flattering! Have a natural smile too & smile like you mean it! Non of this duck lips/pout it just looks false.
Lots of shots -
Take a lot of photos so you have a selection to choose from, you can also take a mini clip and take out the best stills of your self!
Filter, crop -
Use your filter apps, obviously you don't want to add too much of a filter, maybe a soft glow.... I've also seen awful lot of sellers that don't crop photos and they have too much background or space around them, it's good to get all your selling in the picture - but you don't need the whole room in the photo as well!
Other tips -
Don't overthink it & relax if you can, it's best to have the photos natural looking rather than stiff looking - pardon the pun!
The best poses are the ones that come naturally to you. Have your own style copying too much isn't advised.... It's best not to take photos of your reflection in the mirror (especially if the mirror is dirty!)
Fan signs -
Twitter fan signs are a good way to promote yourself, it's up to you if you charge or do them free. Always write clearly with a black pen and not lipstick writing! It will stand out more clearly on the photo.
Now get snapping!
Throughout my selling "career" I've seen a whole lot of things up for sale! Buyers buy worn knickers and so much more! I will list of some of the things I can think of that I've seen people sell (men & women) not just on ED but on other fetish selling platforms (listed in no particular order) -
Used knickers. Used thongs. Used G Strings. Stuffed panties. Used swim wear. Used bras. Used tights. Used socks. Filled pots. Used toilet roll. Toenail clippings. Flakes of skin. Sanitary items.
Hair (head & pubic) Toothbrushes. Hairbrushes. Used condoms. Sissy dresses. Used Gymwear. Used Shoes, Trainers. Coated sweet treats. Used sex toys. Pussy clone.
Sissy jewellery. Sissy nipple tassels. Sissy handbags. Sissy purses. Domination whips and cuffs. Sexting. Girlfriend experiences. Sissy tasks. Dick ratings.
Cam sessions. Phone sex. Custom pics and clips. Pre made pics and clips. Chastity services. Fetishes. Roleplay. Domination. Humilliation.
And so much MORE....
Buy used panties with peace of mind! There are lots of websites that have ladies and gents advertising their used panties for sale, it's difficult to know where to turn to buy dirty panties.
I have a few buying tips for you guys (and girls out there) it's not just about the used panty fetish it's about the experience with the fetish seller and choosing the right one - I will help you choose!
Firstly don't entertain any worn knickers for sale until you check out the seller... always go for a verified seller with 5 star reviews on any panty selling platform like this one.
If you prefer to buy via Twitter rather than a platform here are some tips for you! Check the seller @........... in Twitters search and see if you can take a look at the sellers previous conversations - it will show up in these conversations/tweets if they are a scammer, the only time it won't is if they've changed their Twitter username.
If a seller is not verified please remember that it is your responsibility as a panty buyer to verify their age - this can be done with your name, their name and the date wrote in a piece of paper then a "live" photo of them with the bit of paper (please note not all sellers will show their face, please respect this) this will put you at ease as they are who they say. Remember you must always age verify in return to sellers if you are not verified any platform (you can verify your account on ED)
Then look at there prices and checkout there worn panties for sale to see if they are right for you.
I'd like to say to message them before you buy to get a feel of their personality - however you don't want to be labelled as a time waster. So my recommendation is to maybe follow them for a while on Twitter, Only Fans or Admire Me (if they have accounts) on these types of platforms where you can message the sellers directly for a small fee? This means you can chat to them without being a nuisance.
Still not sure? Then I recommend you give them a small treat or make a small purchase with your chosen seller to start off with, this will make sure that they are genuine and most importantly it will help you decide if they are the seller for you!
It seems a very long winded the process but after all this is a special treat to yourself and you want to be able to enjoy the experience without being scammed or if you find you don't like the seller as much as you first thought! You have to not only find the seller attractive but you also need to like her personality. Some sellers may look beautiful but some can be very unkind... I know all about some sellers not being nice!
If you have any trouble with a seller ie: - they don't send you the goods you've paid for - report them to the platform you contacted the seller through to buy. I know ED encourage buyers to get in touch with them if this happens through their platform (screenshots of conversations from the ED website may need to be provided in order to remove a seller)
Good luck and enjoy smelling used knickers, it is a very nice experience!
Over the years to sell used panties I've tried and tested a lot of different things within my profile and listings, on various selling platforms. Some things have worked & others haven't been as successful. Personally I think ED is the best selling platform. It's best to have a detailed profile to reduce the number of time wasters!
It is also best to be yourself and tell the truth, that way you build up trust with your buyers, for example if you are in a relationship say that you are - please don't give them hope that they have a chance of being with you... You don't need to tell buyers a lot about your life - just be you!
Below is a checklist that I have found helpful over the years - let's keep this simple!
Be yourself (cliche I know!)
Describe yourself (especially your best bits)
Mention a hobby.
Your relationship status.
Make it clear what you offer.
Make it clear what you don't offer.
Mention your age (example - I am in my 30's)
A WOW profile pic.
Add good clear photos to your ads.
How you package items.
How you post items (inc costs)
What your best at.
Your best selling item.
Make your ads clear.
List everything they'll receive.
List your gift/payment options.
Mention it will be great fun.
No need to show your face.
No need to show your rude bits.
I hope this has helped you! It does sound long winded, but it works trust me!
How do I become a successful panty seller on ED I hear you ask... It can be difficult to get it right... Over the years I have changed my profile name a few times, but lately I decided what the hell I'm keeping it as it is!
Main reason why:- so many buyers come and go all of the time, so changing your profile name won't matter, you'll still get queries from potential buyers you blocked over the years, asking you the same questions .... It won't be any different even with a name change.
So, in my experience it's best to be the same person you've always been and build up a good reputation - if you're good at what you do you shouldn't really need to change your name anyway (unless like myself you thought it would be better & wanted to experiment)
What name do you choose? It's best to pick something that buyers know instantly what you sell - so for example "Mrs Fetish Feet" so straight away they know what you sell or offer.
So getting back to your profile! I'd suggest to checkout the competition, do not mistake this for COPYING the competition! Other sellers don't like this! Take a peak at there photos, bio and adverts they have listed. Get an idea of what you'd like to offer & what you wouldn't like to offer, prices etc.. make notes if needed.
Don't overwhelm yourself by trying to set up your profile in one day.... Maybe one day set up your email address & communication apps. The next day take some photos, day after write your bio, then maybe list an advert each day or week moving forward?
Do it in baby steps over the course of a week or so. Your profile should always be a working progress anyway as you have to work hard to stay ahead of the competition. Make it as detailed as you can packed with all of your information, having a detailed profile & adverts reduces the time wasters you'll receive (as this means less questions)
Don't forget that it's so easy to update your profile on here, you can write it up and add more bits at a later date!
On ED Emporium you can list most things for sale & we always encourage sellers not to be too cheap, in the panty selling industry theirs a lot on competition and a lot of beautiful fetish sellers out there (including yourself) wanting to sell used women's panties & men's undies. You do want to stand out from the crowd BUT lowering your prices is NOT the answer ladies and gents...
Don't be too cheap... I have sold used knickers and other goods for buttons when I first started out and it's attracted the wrong type of buyer to come sniffing around... Pardon the expression.
Fetish buyers that expect cheap prices each time, freebies & think it's ok to talk to you for hours on end for the sake of £10! Your time is worth a lot more than that!
I've seen girls recently sell panties on Twitter for £6 to £8 that is just ridiculous, I've worked out that they will make a whole £2 to £4 per pair for their time and sexy pictures! That is not how to do it.
Why would you want to be cheap anyway? You've had to already go out and buy the panties take photos, put them up for sale and market yourself. This is even before your close the deal with a buyer & talk to them at length, wear the knickers, take photos of you in the items for them etc etc... not to mention dealing with time wasters and all that jazz.
Your time is valuable, fetish buyers are paying for an experience, a service and more importantly your time! So it's best to charge the right amount from the start. Most decent buyers are willing to pay you a proper amount if you give a good service = FACT!
What I tend to do if someone is being awkward and not nice to me I add an extra fee of an extra £30 on top of the order, then your time will be worth it.
ED recommend you start your prices from £20 for posted items and I agree, well actually I charge £25 to £35 for my used underwear including postage (even if they were cheap to buy, remember the experience is the same no matter the cost of the knickers!)
However saying that buyers love a good deal and freebies... don't we all though? How many times have you bought something because it was a good deal but you didn't necessarily need it? I know I have many times!
So maybe throw in an extra few hot pictures or offer a free gift? These free gifts don't have to break the bank! Maybe offer something like a signed photo, a hand written love note, a small used sex toy or a pair of used stockings.
You could also offer an old second pair of used cummy panties for a cheaper rate with their current order? Maybe if you have some that are a little snug or you've ordered too many pairs, but never undersell yourself never!
It's nice to make your buyers feel special!
Hello, Mistress K here :o)
I help out ED Emporium in my spare time with sellling help, giving insight & help with the struggles that are within the industry.
Are you wanting to try fetish selling - but you don't know where to start? Don't worry I am here to help you. Please enjoy my blogs on this website, I do recommend you read those first before you begin... and I hope they are useful to you. If you have a premium ED account and require further assistance with selling please get in touch using the websites contact form & ED will put us in touch.
I have a saying "you only get out what you put in" yes it is free to create an account & yes it is free to list an advert on ED - however... Would you stand out from the other sellers if you did that? No! Would you be able to show all you offer by only having one advert? No! Would you even get noticed as much from buyers? No!
The amount of times I've had sellers say to me "I will see if I get a sale first before I upgrade to premium" sorry but you won't get any sales if you don't put the work in & £15 ain't going to break the bank is it? Some fetish sites are £15 a month & you have to pay straight away even to get on the site.
I'd recommend you create about 2 selling accounts on 2 different fetish sites - anymore than that and it will be too much upkeep for you. Really focus on those 2 sites - rather than spreading yourself too thin so to speak.
If you verify your account that is better and buyers are more likely to get in touch with you - because you say who you are... another important thing is never advertise that fact your the "cheapest" buyers really don't like that and you'll attract the wrong type of buyer - usually the cheap ass cheeky ones who want freebies.
And a final note, if a potential buyer gets in touch with you through this website - please encourage them to verify their account before you chat about fetishes or selling anything to them. You need to stay safe & make sure they are 18+
Don't forget you can reach out to fellow fetish sellers it's nice to make friends along the way!
Luv, Mistress K xxx